tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65951336745066263352024-03-13T10:33:56.997-07:00Life On The West SideChristahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.comBlogger279125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-3192032598007280432013-08-09T09:45:00.000-07:002013-08-09T09:47:40.326-07:00Utah AdventuresLast Wednesday, Paul and the kids and I came over to Utah for his annual West Family Reunion (really, Grandma West's birthday celebration. She's 97 this year.) We spent some time with my sister Jennifer's Family first. My kids always like hanging with their cousins. Then we did the family reunion thing on Saturday. In the afternoon, we drove up to Rexburg to see Rachel and the BYUI campus. They've done so much work there and finished a lot of things that were in the works when we left five years ago (wow!). The new I-Center is really impressive, and the campus looks beautiful. And of course, it was great to see Rachel. We crashed on her floor since it's between semesters and all of her roommates are at home or elsewhere. It's always good to see Rachel. I really miss her!<br />
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We drove back down to Logan Sunday morning, and Paul hitched a ride back to Reno with the Stamps family, and I went back down to Jen's house for the day and one more night. Monday morning, I gathered up my stuff and my kids and went down to Cedar City to hang with Melissa for awhile.</div>
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And we've had quite an adventurous week! Monday, we mostly just hung out and kept life simple. Tuesday, we took the kids to the reservoir and let them play in the sand and swim and have fun. And they did. They surprisingly didn't even want to leave. Very unusual for the little ones. Then we came home, cleaned kids, prepared dinner, and headed up Cedar Canyon to Cedar Breaks. It's kind of hidden back there. You wouldn't really stumble on it.</div>
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Wednesday we met up with some of Melissa's friends from her ward, and drove up to Navajo Lake. The kids had a great time playing in the water there, and I had fun skipping rocks. :) I even got a few 9- and 10-skippers! It was a very serene lake.<br />
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Nate took the day off on Thursday so we could all go up to Zion National Park, the one request I had when I came down here since I've never been and have always wanted to see the red rocks. At some point, I would love to come back and do The Narrows Trail. We went up Kolob Canyon, which had amazing views, then continued on to the main area of Zion. It was gorgeous in there. A place I would love to go back to over and over to explore all the different areas. So much to see!</div>
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The kids were troopers! Kolob Canyon was about a mile hike round trip, and then we hiked the lower Emerald Pool hike which was a mile and a half from start to finish, and they all did great. I carried each of the twins for very short periods, but they walked all the rest of it, and the three bigger kids didn't even complain at all about being tired or wanting to go home. It's always more fun with cousins, right?</div>
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It's been a really fun week! I'm not looking forward to the really long drive home tomorrow on The Loneliest Highway in America, but it will be good to be home too. I miss Paul and I'm ready to get back to regular life and normal schedules. But, I'm so glad we got a chance to make these memories.</div>
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carolyn and frank got in thursday evening to help with the move, and let me tell you, it was so nice to have them there! poor paul took the greyhound from reno to medford through the night thursday night. i went and picked him up in the morning. sarah also came to see us before we left and spent the day with us friday. i'm missing her already!</div>
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paul was ahead of us, so by the time we got here they were already in the midst of unloading the truck. we had so much family here! it was so fun having my house so full of people that i love. david and christy and kids drove up from fresno just to be here to help, and they so did! lisa and jon and kids, of course, were here, and arlin and diana were also here getting ready to leave on a road trip with the stamps family. so with all those people, plus us and carolyn and frank, it was quite a full house! but this house is actually big enough to handle all those people. i rather enjoyed myself actually.</div>
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now, i'm finally getting my house put together, and i will put up pictures once i've got it done. i really like the house though! i think i like it more than any other place we've ever been. and there's so much space, i don't know what to do with it all! it's wonderful!</div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Mom, being as totally awesome as she is, came to visit last weekend. She thought it would be a nice Mother's Day present so come so I wouldn't have to be alone, and it totally was. It was wonderful! </span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">They got in Thursday night, and came to my basketball game, which my team won with some amazing free-throw shooting and patience against a high school team. Friday, Sarah came over, and it was so good to see her. She and Chuck spent most of the day together shopping and then going to visit her current residence in Merlin/Grants Pass. Mom and I played games and let the kids run around while Keith was at school. Then, later that night we all played games. It had been a warm day so we'd opened all the windows and even the front door (which there's a screen on) to let some cooler air try to make it's way through the house. Around 11:30 I heard the screen door open. I didn't say anything, but I was thinking "Did my front door just open? Did someone just walk into the house?" I thought maybe (hoped) that I was hearing things wrong and it was just a kid opening a back bedroom door and coming down the hallway. And then I heard big footsteps in the entry, and I started to get worried.</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Then, Paul walked around the corner. :D It was pretty much the best Mother's Day surprise ever! He was late because the suburban had been in the shop and didn't get done until late. The four of us then stayed up until after 1:00 playing games and just enjoying each other's company. </span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Saturday, Clint and Sarah took Chuck fishing early in the morning. They ended up being gone all day, which would've been a real bummer for me and mom since we were going to do some shopping together, but since Paul had come home we fortunately weren't stuck with all the kids. He stayed with the kids while Mom and I went to lunch and then did some shopping. It was a lot of fun and something we haven't done for a long time. </span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sunday was a nice day at church. They go all out in our ward for Mother's Day. We got a little basil plant after sacrament, and then third hour, we got a cute little boxed lunch and time to just chat and socialize. Mom was really impressed. :) Paul got me a necklace with the kids birthstones in it, which I just love (seriously, he's starting to really rock at this gift idea thing), and he also made dinner. Sadly, he had to leave around 6:00 to get back to Reno, but mom and Chuck stayed for another day, and Monday morning we all, including Clint and Sarah, went to breakfast. It was hard to say goodbye to everyone, but at least I have Melissa and Nate's visit to look forward to Sunday!</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So, just as I suspected, the first five weeks have gone kind of slow, but now I'm realizing just how fast the next four weeks (less actually) are going to go. So much to do, so little time! Well, not really, there's plenty of time, but having to stop what you're doing every 30 minutes or less to take care of a child can make the going slow. What I need is for them to be out of the house for about two days. Then I would just fly though this house! Pipe dreams, I know, but hey, a girl can dream!</span></b></span>Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-50418162150692907552013-05-01T22:02:00.004-07:002013-05-01T22:02:49.072-07:00SEVEN<div style="text-align: center;">
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my friend april has a little girl named payton, who also just happens to be a may day baby. so we thought it would be fun to do a combined birthday celebration with her extended family and let all the kids run free, of which there were quite a few. i'm really going to miss the blue family! being at their house is kind of like being at home. there's a lot of them, and they all sing and quote movies and have so much fun. they are super cool people!</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">all in all, life is grand. life is sweet.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">and god is good.</span></div>
Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-83467489383945885572013-01-28T22:18:00.001-08:002013-01-28T22:22:45.494-08:00summer fun ideas<div style="text-align: center;">
my sister, melissa mentioned to me a few weeks ago about how a friend of hers made a list of things to do during the summer and each day the kids would pick something. I decided this was a great idea because trying to come up with something to do each day can be tough, but if you don't put some kind of effort into it you could end up sitting around a lot more than you intend do (maybe that's just me), and that leads to boredom and boredom leads to bad attitudes, cranky people and a multitude of other not-so-good things. so, today i started making a list. i came up with surprisingly quite a few things in a relatively short period of time. so, the plan is to print these all out, cut them up into little strips and put them into some kind of "fun jar" that we can pick from everyday. i'm kind of excited about this.</div>
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<span style="color: #990000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>write letters/thank you notes (color pictures to send, etc) for family members, friends, whoever</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>park day</b></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #b45f06;">sprinklers/water fun day (water balloons, squirt guns, etc . . . maybe we will combine that one </span><span style="color: #b45f06;">with "washing-the-'burb' day", haha)</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>fort making day</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #f1c232; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>baking day</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #bf9000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>board game day</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #7f6000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>lake day</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #274e13; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>swim at a friend's</b></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #38761d;">craft </span><span style="color: #38761d;">day</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>beach day</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>go on a hike</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>backyard campout</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0c343d; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>hike & seek/outside game day</b></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #20124d;">libra</span><span style="color: #20124d;">ry day (they really like going to the library)</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #674ea7; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>have a picnic</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>dance party</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>unbirthday party (we don't have any birthdays between may and november, so this would be really fun.)</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #4c1130; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>art day (drawing, coloring, painting, sidewalk chalk, etc)</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #660000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>scavenger hunt</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #990000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>doorbell ditch day (thinking we could spend half the day making things and then deliver them to various peoples of the ward, or possibly something non-food. we'll see.)</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>service day (similar to previous, but something more thoughtful and directly personal that, hopefully, fills a need)</b></span></div>
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that is 26 things. not too bad, if you think about sundays and paul's days off so we'll do something different in there, plus trips to family and hopefully a camping trip or two).</div>
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tell me what you think, or if you have any other ideas. i would love to hear them!</div>
Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-51026411381754808462013-01-07T12:38:00.000-08:002013-01-07T12:38:04.421-08:00mysterious ways, indeed<div>
first, paul didn't get the construction job. he doesn't have the depth of experience they were looking for. of course he doesn't, the economy crashed less than 6 months after he got his degree. and he's been out of the field for almost 4 years now. and it doesn't look like he will ever get back in.</div>
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anyway, he did get another job. and a decent paying job . . . after the first three months anyway. i assume, since it's basically a line job, that there's a high turnover rate, so of course, they give people a 90 day trial before they start really paying them.</div>
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he had started the process of getting his contractor's license, which he clearly needs to complete. but when he didn't get the construction job i (and i think he, but i didn't ask, and we hadn't really had time to talk about it) took it as a sign that he needed to start focusing more on creating and trying to build his own business. i thought swing shift would be perfect for that. work from 3 pm - 11 pm, sleep and in the morning, before work he could start doing small jobs and building a name for himself. that sounded perfect, like there was a fix, though one that was going to take quite some time, obviously, to fix.</div>
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the problem is, they hired him for graveyard. i'm not sure how he can do small jobs between the hours of 4 and 10 pm. maybe he can. i don't know. i'm so very confused. where are we going? i just feel like we're wandering without a direction, career-wise. that's okay when you're young, but once you get older, it just feels dangerous. (and before you point out that i'm still in my 20's, remember that paul's halfway through his 30's. not old, but certainly old enough to be concerned with having a career.)</div>
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if my kids were all in school, it would be an inconvenience at best. but they're not. and they're loud. and he's a light sleeper. hopefully he'll learn to not be such a light sleeper. and fortunately, he does fall asleep at the drop of a hat.</div>
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mostly, i'm worried about him getting enough sleep, and about him making it past the first 3 months when we can actually receive the benefits of the job (i.e. enough money to pay our bills!) he will burn out, though knowing him it will take closer to a year. gosh, i sure hope something else comes in that time. </div>
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this last year was the first time in our marriage that he didn't get up and out of the house before 6 am (and sometimes as early as 3:00). it was nice while it lasted.</div>
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wish us luck.</div>
Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-21684969879732938452012-12-09T16:08:00.002-08:002012-12-11T11:32:48.434-08:00only half correct...<span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">keith:</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">alexa, all we ever do is play your girly, boring games!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #741b47;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">alexa</span>:</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">girly, but <i>not</i> boring!</span></span></div>
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Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-82751058518898100392012-12-08T20:05:00.001-08:002012-12-08T20:32:26.374-08:00there are no words<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">we were doorbell ditched tonight. i have absolutely no idea who did it. i honestly probably couldn't even come up with a good list of possible suspects if i had to. but it doesn't matter. that's not the point, and i know that. i'm touched. truly, truly touched.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">it was a big garbage bag. there was a toy for each kid in it. great toys. toys they'll all love. plus gift cards for us for and some cash. i was thinking, this will help a lot in getting us to california for christmas. i don't even know what to say. i was moved to tears when i realized what all was in that sack.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">i can't describe how blessed i've felt in the last few years. there have been so many thoughtful people in our life giving and sharing and helping out, sometimes anonymously, sometimes not. the lord has been kind to us. and i'm so grateful for that. i'm also grateful for the people who are generous with their time and resources, and choose to be an instrument in the lord's hands. i really hope someday we're in a position to help others as much as we've been helped. though i know, there are always other ways to help.</span><br />
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<i><span style="color: #990000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: x-large;">what i'm trying to say is, thank you. whoever you are. i don't know if you'll ever see this; i'm guessing not, but thank you. from the bottom of my heart.</span></i>Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-19334530179178346362012-12-06T19:31:00.001-08:002012-12-06T19:37:13.098-08:00such a boy...<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">keith was moved to the back bedroom, which means his stuff got moved to the tall dresser. he's just barely tall enough to peek over the top drawer when he's standing right up next to it. he put his shirts in that drawer and his pants in the next drawer down. the bottom two are empty. i asked him why he didn't put his stuff down lower.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #990000; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">"but you can't see what you're grabbing," i said.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">to which he responded "<b>it doesn't matter.</b>"</span></div>
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">you'd never hear alexa say that, hahaha.</span></div>
Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-40358127280664882692012-11-29T17:14:00.003-08:002012-11-29T18:33:21.816-08:00it's becoming almost comical...<span style="color: #38761d; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">our garage door decided to go out a few days ago. it won't open past about 18" for some reason. we spent some time looking at it tuesday night and realized that the turn wheel above the motor that the chain sits around is broken. it's still there and it's kind of working (it goes down just fine) but because there is a break in it, it can't seem to create the power it needs to <i>lift</i> the extremely heavy wooden door. awesome.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">so i just parked the suburban outside. no big deal.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">but today it rained. all day. it's still raining in fact. i like rain, for the most part. however, i got in it about an hour ago to take a quick trip to kinkos with paul so he could fax something and discovered that it's leaking. inside. on the top there's a spot to attach a big radio antenna, and apparently, the area around it is no longer water-tight. so there's water dripping down behind the a/c controller for the backseat and onto the floor.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">oh, and on top of that, my defroster isn't working. everything works, but it needs freon. but the real problem is that it needs to be flushed out before new freon is put in. that costs money. and therein lies the problem. (does anyone else think it's stupid that you need<i> freon</i> for the <i>defroster</i>? clearly, i don't understand how it works...)</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">the underside leaks like a sieve too. power steering fluid mostly, i think. but, really it could be just about anything. i know so little about cars.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">don't forget i don't have a passenger-side handle! (better than driver, right?)</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">we have two house doors that won't close when the weather changes due to swelling/shrinking and poor strike-plate placement. again, not really a big deal, but a pain at least.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">a couple weeks ago the garbage disposal went out. i didn't want to try to fix it myself in case i messed it up. then it would be my fault and we'd be in trouble. so instead we let the property management company know and they sent a guy over. turns out it was an easy fix. just had something wrapped around it. but since it wasn't "normal wear and tear" it's now still our fault and going to cost me $36.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">paul got a phone call that he was delinquent on a student loan bill. we thought it was on forbearance. apparently, it wasn't. it was sent to collections. we had to pay that somehow, and then fill out the paperwork to get the forbearance reinstated (hence the trip to kinkos). </span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">also, he went to ausland today to inquire in person and discovered that the VP of operations just passed away very suddenly (he was young.) he was involved in the interview process (one of the two guys that did paul's interview), so naturally the whole company is distressed and things are kind of on hold in the hiring department. so, who knows how much longer before we know about that job.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">i don't write all this to whine, because honestly, i'm fine. like i said, at this point, each new thing is almost funny. really, i'm writing partly to document it (mom asked me if i'd journaled it. i should still do that, but this is better than not doing it at all), and partly to explain why i really am starting to feel like i'm at the end of my rope (you don't even want to know what my savings account looks like). i'm hoping this is all a good sign. that this is satan's way of trying to beat us down and make us lose hope because he knows something good is close if we can just keep doing what we're doing. they say it's always darkest before the dawn, right? there's always this extra-high pressure period before it's released. like a parting shot? <~~~ actually, that kind of made me laugh.<!--------></span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">gosh, i sure hope that's true. if not, well, somehow we'll survive. and we've been really blessed that the suburban has had so few problems in the time we've had it considering it's age. and most of this stuff is cosmetic or an inconvenience. it's been a good vehicle really. we've been so blessed in so many other ways too. <b>and i really feel that way. </b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #990000;"><b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">but, really, it wouldn't hurt my feelings to have something great happen now.</span> :)</b></span>Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-65388704723594568842012-11-25T21:30:00.000-08:002012-11-25T21:30:39.493-08:00he's the manfor a little extra cash paul got a job two nights a week cleaning. one night he does a toyota dealership and the next he does a diner and the local bowling alley. since mom and chuck were here for thanksgiving, i went with him last night, and let me tell you, that was a whole new experience. not the cleaning part, but seeing the whole inside of a car dealership. including the service garage, the locker rooms, and the boss's private bathroom including a shower and a dresser.<br />
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the first thing i thought when we got there and paul started pulling out cleaning stuff was "wow, this sucks." which i said out loud. paul said "you didn't have to come, it's okay." but that's not what i meant. i meant, wow this sucks that after working so hard to get through years of schooling while having kids and working part time for bad minimum wage while still taking out student loans that he still has to take a night job cleaning to make ends meet. kind of. it sucks that he has a degree to do something he loves and instead does jobs that are very boring and un-stimulating because that's what he has to do to take care of his family.<br />
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i loved him all the more at that moment, and now probably every time he continues to go out to clean and go to his regular day job because it's all we've got right now.<br />
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and you know what? he never complains. other than occasionally saying things like "i hate retail." (who can blame him?). he just does it because it has to be done. because, seriously, he's the man. oh yeah, and then, on top of that, after he's been out cleaning until 3:00 a.m. he gets up in the morning to take keith to school or feed the kids breakfast and when i tell him to get some sleep he says things like "but i want to be with you!"<br />
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if he has to work anyway--and he does because we're poor and don't have any money to our names--then i sure wish he could be doing something he loves. something that pushes him each day. something that gives him the chance to grow and magnify his talents. daddy that's happy after a rewarding day at work is much more fun than daddy who's bored and frustrated and doesn't ever want to talk about work. and i want him to be happy.<br />
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so, for this reason, and many others, i am really, really hoping paul gets this job. but either way, i hit the jackpot. seriously, this guy is gold.Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-38637560389444943732012-11-22T19:17:00.003-08:002012-11-22T19:17:49.028-08:00grateful<span style="color: #bf9000; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">i have so much to be grateful for this holiday. so, so much. we went around the table and said what we were thankful for. i thought of the standard at first, especially family. but then, they started tumbling out. and i would feel so ungrateful not to take a few minutes to mention just a <i>few</i> of these things that i am almost inexpressibly grateful for.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">this list is short and really incomplete, but these are a few of my favorite things . . . oh sorry, had a song moment there. i have <i>much</i> in my life to be grateful for!! and though things could maybe be a little bit better, they could be a <i>whooole</i> lot worse, and i'm happy with where we are right now in life. really.</span>Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-1114623005722197802012-11-06T15:53:00.001-08:002012-11-06T15:53:26.047-08:00funerals and tender mercies<span style="color: #38761d; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">a few weeks ago i got a phone call from a woman in my ward i don't even know. not because she's inactive, but because her husband is in the presidency of the single's ward so, of course, she attends church with him across town. her father had recently passed away, and they were looking for a piano player for two family musical numbers. she was given my name by the woman who has played for them in the past, but was out of town. i am so, so glad she gave her my number.</span><div>
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">anyhoo, i got with them sunday evening to learn the song. it was a beautiful arrangement of "i stand all amazed". they learned it super quickly. i got with them again early(ish) monday before the funeral. they were amazing. there was also a small group of 3 women who sang "pie jesu" which was also just beautiful. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><b>when i read the first sentence, i thought "oh, looks like she's been hacked." then i kept reading, and my confusion grew. </b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;"><b>you see, christine wood is in my ward, but <i>not</i> my neighbor. in fact, she lives about a mile away. on a street called white oak. i live on siskiyou. not at all similar. her address: 300. mine: 2595. also <i>not</i> at all similar. sure, her first name is christine, and her last name starts with a w. and has four letters, but i was always under the impression that they processed mail by first looking at the state, then city, then street, then house number, <i>then</i> possibly name. but let's face it, even if everything else matches except the name they still deliver it to the address on the envelope/package. heck, mail doesn't really even have to <i>have</i> a name for them to deliver.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d; font-size: large;"><b>so, <i>how</i>, on earth, did my package wind up a mile away from my house at someone's house i just <i>happen</i> to know?</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d; font-size: large;"><b>and the weirdest part: in the box was the garments i had ordered from slc for myself and paul! i assume that if it had ended up at maybe chrissy's neighbors' house they would've looked at the address said "wth?" and circled the address on it before stuffing it back in their mailbox to give the inept USPS another chance to get it to the right house. </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;"><b>but maybe not. and that could've been awkward. plus, then i would've been annoyed that my stuff never showed up.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;"><b>i'm not sure where the breakdown in that whole thing happened, but i don't think it was mere "coincidence" that it ended up at a ward member's house. even if said ward member does live a mile away.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;"><b>'course, next time it would be nice if they could just get it to my house the first time. :) and i did get kind of a kick out of it, even if it was really bizarre.</b></span></span>Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-52656298721999502662012-09-16T19:08:00.004-07:002012-09-16T19:08:53.922-07:00are you there autumn?<span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">it's september. in oregon. for some reason, i really expected it to be a little cooler by now. </span><div>
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Christahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02522380696624664928noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6595133674506626335.post-64238534056405486342012-08-26T14:04:00.001-07:002012-08-26T14:07:16.730-07:00unexpected blessings<span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">when paul and i realized we were going to have to move to give us any hope of survival, i mentally prepared myself for a large sacrifice. see, i love the valley. well, mostly. i love what the valley has to offer so close. i love that you can make a day trip to the beach, or be up in the giant sequoias in less than two hours. i love that it doesn't get really cold, but there's enough to give me a break from the summer heat and to make me happy for the summer heat to come back. i love that so many kinds of fruits and vegetables don't just grow there, but thrive there. i don't so much love the smog and the dry, ugly nothingness of the undeveloped land. i also don't love the crime and the taxes.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><b>and now i can. she's decided to get out of the valley . . . can't say that i blame her there. and she's coming here to live with us and start over. soon. like next week soon.</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">i was talking about my frustrating shinsplints with a friend, and we were talking through the possibilities trying to figure out what could be causing them when she mentioned weight gain/loss. sometimes gaining or losing a lot can throw your body off as it readjusts to the weight distribution. and as i thought back, it seemed the problem and the weight loss seemed to coincide, if i'm remembering my time lines accurately.</span><br />
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